Abundant Grace for the Impulsive Brain

A Facebook post tells me that the speed of an incoming brain impulse is 250 mph. Yeah, I think. Probably more when angry. Just try stopping one of those in my child with Autism and ADHD. Lack of emotional regulation combined with lack of impulse control can get really ugly. If you’ve ever snapped at…

Grace in its Element – When Autism Showed Up at the Lord’s Supper

I confess I don’t hear the communion service very well tonight. But snippets of prayer stand out and grateful tears touch my cheeks. That the Holy Spirit is always with us – that’s you and me, too, Gideon. That I am firmly, completely, and wonderfully saved. And Gideon, too. God wants autistic people in His family, too.

Spoons and the Autism Spectrum – Seeing (and enjoying!) the Bigger Picture of Special Needs Parenting

I had the brilliant idea to teach my boys the game Spoons. I love Spoons! It’s easy, fast-paced, easy to reset and start again. Perfect for wiggly boys, right? I explain the rules. Pick a card from the right, pass to the left. Keep only 7 cards in your hand at a time. You need…

An Autism Baptism – Evidence of a Limitless God

In all the areas of Gideon’s autism that we navigate, through all our failures and victories, and despite all the ways that we as humans don’t understand each other, God still got through to Gideon. Let my son be a reminder to us all that God is not limited by a social communication disorder, just like he is not limited by a cognitive disability or a mental health condition.